my wife blames the fall of our relationship on me. most days I believe her, then I remember she was the quitter. I just didn't try to save us because I didn't know there was a potential threat (OM) or that she would leave at all. i HATE that saying "you don't know what you have til it's gone" but that damn thing can't be truer.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF