you gotta plan some "me" days where you make yourself fall off the face of the earth. go to the park, go swimming (it's hot here!) try para-sailing or jet skiing; something, anything ! yeah you gotta do the whole "papers" thing; at some point we all do. do the papers and then go out for a drink. go window shopping. go shopping for REAL (bad habit here).
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
