Thanks Sleeper and Sir,

The money thing just gets me. To my ex everything is about money.....

I also think my ex views me as a mother figure. My ex hated his mother for everything she did to him. When she died, he turned all his hate toward me because he never resolved all his issues with her.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11