Thanks sg and glam. I read, register and understand what you are both saying. This PDF doesn't tell me 'per se' to dump my wife, give the boot ..divorce her...etc. It describes to the 't' her behavior over the last several years...almost PERFECTLY.

It does describe how to deal with them and it is NOT too far off the mark from DB principles. It simply tells you how to break the cycle of their 'limbo'.

Finally...my friend frank_d reminded me about my book...The New Earth...and how 'wallowing' in this book is 'egoic' and not living 'in the moment'. He is right. So..Idone sg..no more quotes. I'll finish it myself.

Two threads back or so I chronicled the real time events of the demise of my M. As I said, this PDF has given me tremendous relief with regards to closure. I'll 'epilogue' again with how I see how the demise of my M played out with regards to 'theory'.

It just makes sense now..it just makes sense.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;