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Now, she hasn't called to talk with the kids at all and I am wondering if I should when she has them. Something to ponder tonight


I'll answer this from my POV..I don't have a clue what the DB way is with this. I would assume it's OK because it's about the kids. I believe you should call them. If you D then legally you are allowed to call them. It's part of may parenting plan. Call them, talk to them, then get off..JMO.