as far as what I THINK you mean by her experiencing me, she already sees I am more physically active, spiritually active, closer to our families, more involved in our son's life, sober, and her friends say I'm way more fun than the old me. not that this does any good, but she has said she is ecstatic about who i've become. it's just "too little, too late"
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
