on the contrary here are the negatives and/or positives of those
a) we don't talk b/c she doesn't want my opinion right now b) she's with OM c) already spending more time with her family and mine d) done e) can't do that by detaching or with OM present f) i'm active in our parish, now she hardly goes (might be guilt)
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
