SG, what do you mean by "how does your wife experience you?" I can tell you that my goals are as follows:
a) Listen, not just receive what she says into my ear canals b) spend more time with her (3rd shift kills ya) c) more of a family man (both of our families); take part in activities d) no drugs ! e) make her feel the way she DESERVES, not how I THINK she might want to feel. f) more active religiously
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF