SG, what do you mean by "how does your wife experience you?" I can tell you that my goals are as follows:

a) Listen, not just receive what she says into my ear canals
b) spend more time with her (3rd shift kills ya)
c) more of a family man (both of our families); take part in activities
d) no drugs !
e) make her feel the way she DESERVES, not how I THINK she might want to feel.


2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF

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