Originally Posted By: hopeful4her

But S14 really needs to get his eyes checked. Can't remember that last time he had an exam and I'm the one that took the day off.


Although nice of you to do, you are just making destroying your family easy for her. Why should she be home, you still change your plans for her no matter where she lives. I know I sound harsh, but you have to let her do this by herself. I know it sucks to have the kids suffer, but if you continue to save her, she has not motivation to do anything different.

Originally Posted By: kat727
I don't think you should have changed your plans because she and his Dad got all the times and dates messed up...HER PROBLEM. Quit picking up the pieces for her, that makes you an ENABLER. You are going to be fine just stop changes your plans around because she calls. GAL hon.

kat


What Kat said.

Its for her own good....((((H4H))))


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option