It wasn't a difficult conversation eventhough t could tell she was willing to elevate it at one point...she tried laying a guilt trip on me but I wasn't biting. I just listened and validated and told her my POV. But the kids will be glad to see her and she's thankful so I am pleased.
Now, she hasn't called to talk with the kids at all and I am wondering if I should when she has them. Something to ponder tonight. I'll post more in the morning as I have been too busy tonight catching up with old friends back east and it's getting late.
Chris
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Now, she hasn't called to talk with the kids at all and I am wondering if I should when she has them. Something to ponder tonight
I'll answer this from my POV..I don't have a clue what the DB way is with this. I would assume it's OK because it's about the kids. I believe you should call them. If you D then legally you are allowed to call them. It's part of may parenting plan. Call them, talk to them, then get off..JMO.