Memories keep sneaking in....I still miss him!

[theotherhalf]

"What you have to remember is they are not capable of all the contact with the kids. I feel they stay away because they are ashamed and not worthy of fatherhood."

Treese, I believe this 100%. My H doesn't see or talk to our girls rarely. I used to get angry. I would call him out on it. He would get mad at me. Try to blame me. Then see them a day or two. Then back to rarely again. I don't say anything anymore. This is his bed. It's his job to clean it up or keep it a mess. I can't fix it for him.

Treese you have to let it go, for you and for your kids. All I do now is talk to my girls. Make sure they know that he does still love them he just has his priorities messed up. That I am sorry and that I love them.

Hang in there Treese. If anyone understands your anger it is I. And I know very well by experience what kind of trouble that anger can cause if YOU let it. TRUST ME! It's NOT worth it. LEt it go! Let him go! Loose any and all control you thought you had or want to have of your lost H. Put them in Gods hands and pray.

(((TREESE)))
luv, TOH