during sex, look up and say, "by the way, this little extra is for helping me the other day."
Ken, so what you are saying is that men don't care if sex is a "reward".....just as long as they get it, right? (lol) So does that fall in anywhere with make-up sex, pity sex, ahhhhh, what else?......."just do it and get it over with sex"? (lol) Don't get mad, I'm just teasing ya. I really think I know what you are telling us. As long as it is okay with our H's then we should not worry about him thinking of it as a reward or not.....right? It would just be another way of showing our appreciation. Like when my H vacuums the carpet. (lol)
I think I need to close with this one......I have made some terrible bummers tonight. Think this is one of my "off" nights.
You all have a good one.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
