While I agree with you completely on the whole BB gun issue and even support you confronting her about it, I worry about her state.
This is a woman who has been in a fragile state for some time. I keep thinking that at some point there could be a really low, low.
If she sleeps apart from you tonight, please at least check in on her.
There's a lot of little child in her right now. She is easily overwhelmed, prefers to avoid responsibility, and is at her best when she can just have fun. Even her enjoyment of Duncan smacks of a childlike response.
You toe a very delicate line here Mules.
Always, I repeat always, think through what you need to say and how you plan to say it. I think you did alright tonight with the issue at hand, but you're clearly in an agitated state.
You're a good man and a strong man. Your family needs you to continue to carry the load. Make sure you are taking time to keep yourself strong too.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
