Well, you don't want to be here right now, we are in the middle of a nice little storm! But it probably won't last long.
It's ok to feel the way you are feeling! It really is. You are right about one thing.... there isn't anything that you can do or say that will make him come around. It's going to take consistency from you, and time.
It's going to be hard, but the things you have to do will be good for you, no matter what the outcome. For now, I think you are doing what you need to do. Take care of yourself, and your baby. You can't control him.