off work and to the house again. Worked on the last bedroom and BIL gave his blessing on the drywall work..so tomorrow the artist wields his brush and the paint shall fly. Once painting is complete then put the quarter round down and change a light fixture and viola another room down..moved a few more items today. Got home in time to see D and play with her before bed..have I told you guys lately that my D is "the one"?? Unconditional love from her..I love it. she is all over me when I walk in..it does not get any better. I love her more than life itself. Packed a few more items in the car...STBX tried to start a little drama. By tossing an electric bill my way with a little note on it telling me I needed to pay it...STBX had gotten a little upset about a picture i had taken. She had given it to me as a gift a few years back..she wanted it back and I obliged her. It's just a picture right??
I have decided I will no longer have time for her drama because I'm just to busy being fabulous.
Next time she starts that's what I will be saying. I'm just to busy being fabulous ..not to piss her off, because it will but if I say it with happy in my voice and a smile on my face because it's what I want and it's the truth then she'll just have to be pissed. I'm sick of the drama..good golly Ms. Molly..enough is enough..
I can hear her downstairs in her bedroom fighting with the dogs in her bed..the dogs now have drama...she is a drama queen.
Well..the house is getting closer to being complete. One bedroom and the kitchen to go..The bedroom should be ready this week..the kitchen..who knows..soon I hope.
My sis/BIL, mom, brother have all been real blessings for me through this. They have helped keep me sane an partially grounded through this..I've had my bad days but nothing long and drawn out for a while now..which is good.
All you have been real blessings too. Thanks again for helping me and keeping me moving forward. Not letting me get stuck.I appreciate it.
Sounds like you handled last night really well . She is getting petty with the picture thing and the cookbook but you are being the better person in all of this.
I hope the house is done soon so you can get away from the drama and maybe get some sleep.
Sounds as if you being "happy" and not playing into her drama has thrown her off. Now the poor dogs will have to take the brunt of it.....how sad for them!
You know, they don't much like it when we change the dance. They like when they know that they struck a nerve with us, but somehow it doesn't have the same effext when we project an air of ambivilence.
It will be so much easier and much less "Drama filled" when she can't have a meltdown on the spur of the moment, because you won't be there for her to wail on!