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Lissie #1545388 08/04/08 06:20 PM
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Mike..

Keep your eye on the prize..

*hugs*

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dammit

i always am late to the drama parties

sorry that last week was rough for you

remember to take the lessons you learned and apply them to this new week


i had to repeat an awful lot of lessons until I remembered that trick

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thanks Fig..

off work and to the house again. Worked on the last bedroom and BIL gave his blessing on the drywall work..so tomorrow the artist wields his brush and the paint shall fly. Once painting is complete then put the quarter round down and change a light fixture and viola another room down..moved a few more items today. Got home in time to see D and play with her before bed..have I told you guys lately that my D is "the one"?? Unconditional love from her..I love it. she is all over me when I walk in..it does not get any better. I love her more than life itself. Packed a few more items in the car...STBX tried to start a little drama. By tossing an electric bill my way with a little note on it telling me I needed to pay it...STBX had gotten a little upset about a picture i had taken. She had given it to me as a gift a few years back..she wanted it back and I obliged her. It's just a picture right??

I have decided I will no longer have time for her drama because I'm just to busy being fabulous. \:D

Next time she starts that's what I will be saying. I'm just to busy being fabulous ;\) ..not to piss her off, because it will but if I say it with happy in my voice and a smile on my face because it's what I want and it's the truth then she'll just have to be pissed. I'm sick of the drama..good golly Ms. Molly..enough is enough..

I can hear her downstairs in her bedroom fighting with the dogs in her bed..the dogs now have drama...she is a drama queen.

Well..the house is getting closer to being complete. One bedroom and the kitchen to go..The bedroom should be ready this week..the kitchen..who knows..soon I hope.

My sis/BIL, mom, brother have all been real blessings for me through this. They have helped keep me sane an partially grounded through this..I've had my bad days but nothing long and drawn out for a while now..which is good.

All you have been real blessings too. Thanks again for helping me and keeping me moving forward. Not letting me get stuck.I appreciate it.

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Keep your eye on the prize..


Here I am trying to take care of my old friend Kathleen by warning her..giving her a drama alert..but she just keeps coming back for more..

Have I ever told you that you are a glutton for punishment..LOL..
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Good job Mike,

Sounds like you handled last night really well . She is getting petty with the picture thing and the cookbook but you are being the better person in all of this.

I hope the house is done soon so you can get away from the drama and maybe get some sleep.


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Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
I have decided I will no longer have time for her drama because I'm just to busy being fabulous. \:D
First Journey, now I see you are a Don Henley fan?

Ah, the classics...


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Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
I have decided I will no longer have time for her drama because I'm just to busy being fabulous. \:D


Bravo bro! I LOVE it. You made me smile.

I'm so glad you have your family to support you through this. It's an honor for me to virtually be here for you.

Hope you have a FABULOUS day.

xoxoxoxoxoxo


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First Journey, now I see you are a Don Henley fan?

Oh me too. Love the Long road out of Eden CD."It's your world now" so go on being "Busy being Fabulous"

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You're not just FABULOUS, you are FIERCE!

Sounds as if you being "happy" and not playing into her drama has thrown her off. Now the poor dogs will have to take the brunt of it.....how sad for them!

You know, they don't much like it when we change the dance. They like when they know that they struck a nerve with us, but somehow it doesn't have the same effext when we project an air of ambivilence.

It will be so much easier and much less "Drama filled" when she can't have a meltdown on the spur of the moment, because you won't be there for her to wail on!

Have a great day..............

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how much longer do you think until the house is done??

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