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Foe many of us the feelingsof wanting to return and not wanting them returning constantly plays out
well we realize
our spouses are :sick" in some way
some of them have cheated
they have abandoned us without a flinch
some have left their kids as well
the finances ect
I sometimes reconize my spouse, but it is confusing as he doesnt act the same to me
what bothers me the most is he sees nothing wrong with what he did,,like no one hurt.

you are doing well and creating a nice friendship with wife
so only tiem will tell if she is in MLC how long this will take
you are doing your part and she is accepting it which is good
continue forming this friendship
it is a step in right direction
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow