Y Foe many of us the feelingsof wanting to return and not wanting them returning constantly plays out well we realize our spouses are :sick" in some way some of them have cheated they have abandoned us without a flinch some have left their kids as well the finances ect I sometimes reconize my spouse, but it is confusing as he doesnt act the same to me what bothers me the most is he sees nothing wrong with what he did,,like no one hurt.
you are doing well and creating a nice friendship with wife so only tiem will tell if she is in MLC how long this will take you are doing your part and she is accepting it which is good continue forming this friendship it is a step in right direction peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow