Thanks FIB. I am not in a position to use the LRT. I have many positives in my situation, I just have to be patient.

I don't blame myself for my M crumbling, but I do take responsibility for my lack of communication. I do realize that my h and I have a serious communication gap. Almost the whole time we have been M I feel we have struggled. This is what we are trying to overcome in mc. Not easy though!

I have a tendancy to get under his skin and it triggers some deep emotions within my h. I am working on how best to communicate with my h. I do realize that it takes 2, but right now my h is not a whole person and I could not expect him to react the way a whole person would.

Dealing with a person that is severely depressed is way different than having a conversation with you or I.

Don't read to much into the PDF go with what your heart is telling you.

FIB you are on your way to making a better life for you and the kids. Glad you are at peace.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"