Thanks FIB. I am not in a position to use the LRT. I have many positives in my situation, I just have to be patient.
I don't blame myself for my M crumbling, but I do take responsibility for my lack of communication. I do realize that my h and I have a serious communication gap. Almost the whole time we have been M I feel we have struggled. This is what we are trying to overcome in mc. Not easy though!
I have a tendancy to get under his skin and it triggers some deep emotions within my h. I am working on how best to communicate with my h. I do realize that it takes 2, but right now my h is not a whole person and I could not expect him to react the way a whole person would.
Dealing with a person that is severely depressed is way different than having a conversation with you or I.
Don't read to much into the PDF go with what your heart is telling you.
FIB you are on your way to making a better life for you and the kids. Glad you are at peace.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"