This is something that confuses the HECK out of me.

I've been warned against my H 'cake walking'....to stop allowing it!

Then...it's suggested I be as a friend.

I guess being 'just friends' isn't giving the MLC'er the 'cake and have it too'....

??

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home