SG,

What are your thoughts on accomodating your spouse? Do you see it as a doormat or a welcome mat?

I have been reading up on MLC. The books I have read so far say that a MLC is not a time to push them into doing what you want them to do. It has to come in time for them to come out of their MLC fog which could take 2-5 years. The books say you have to practice patience. Do you agree with this?

MLC is such a difficult time. I would like to know your thoughts and anyone elses.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon