While we are pointing finger and judging...we might do well to remember the the enemy is not each other...it is satan. I can't ever remember SF giving the impression that she the resident expert on standing...marriage or anything else. Why are we so quick to judge each other?

I, also, wonder if arguing about religious beliefs on Patti's thread is doing ANYTHING to make her feel better about her situation. Patti has made the decision to allow her husband to stay in their home, maybe we should just pray that her H will get over whatever his problem is and become a true husband to her.

Moving on...Patti how are the horse shows going? Do you train other horses or just train and show your own?


Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.