Escaping the Backstreets on the Lake Erie Shore

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Does she usually call you by your name when she texts or emails or phones?

This is just something to think about, but do you think you are smothering her by being the nice guy who is always there to make her feel better?

In this last post, you talked to her on the phone. You sensed she might be tense, but she responded she is fine. Maybe she doesn't want you to help her through things every time? As much as you want to be there for her, being there for her without forcing it on her is an important balance to learn. Perhaps she needs to figure some of her tense feelings out without having you to be right there, every time? You know her better than I, what do you think?