This may be the women's version of the 'man up' advice.
Are you being told your spouse is 'cake-eating' and you shouldn't let him/her do it? You had better stop doing his laundry and making him dinner and having sex with him?
In general....that isn't good 'blanket' advice.
Ah, but sg, you silly girl. S/he shouldn't be a doormat....this person has NO RESPECT for her/him. And what she's doing CERTAINLY ISN'T WORKING!!!
Hmmm....
What does BETTER advice look like?
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
