Well she came over. Her mom also just called her TODAY to tell her her dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer. so when she got to mty house I held her for a minute as she cried. then she started grabing stuff to take. I realy tried to look at it from her point of view. she has a new bare place and she has a lot of stuff at mine. I did tear uo a couple of times but i quickley left the room. she told me she was sorry she was hurting me and I told her I wasent, but she smiled and called ma a lier.
She was ok with the bill splitting. I told her she needed to take the truck and she said yeas. ( now if she follows through is another thing, sais she would keep me posted, but it should all be said and done this week.)
she said one good thing I guess "well now that the money will be split now we can see eachother because we want to and not because we have to" I hope she means it. I did call her on the fact she stood me up on tuesday and she did agree she should have at least called. all and all not great but not as bad as I thought it would be.
she told me this was not easy for her, and I looked at her and said " Honey I have not givenb up on you yet. this is just another logical step if we are taking a seperation period. Your my favorit person., and I want you to have zstuff in your new place. Please take care of yourself"
I called the W today to inform her that I had cancelled the joint acount and had a cashiers chek for her with half of what was left in it. She took the day off to be alone, as she's realy takeing her dads cancer hard. I told her being alone can be sad and lonlry and if she needs anything, even just some one to vent on how unfair this all is let me know, I'm here for her.
I so want to take her pain away but i dont know how. I gave her a 3 min pep talk and told her be strong before I hung up. I just wanted to tell her I love her but I know she wont take that right. I called her mom as her dad is at work and whished her all my support as well. I see my W in a lot of pain and I dont know what to do, or if she even wants me to do anything.
You've done really well. Sounds like you did well when she came to get things. I like the comment she made about seeing each other now because you want to. Sounds like she might be thinking in that direction.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
I come to work and find out my " WONDEFULL W" has changed her profil on myspace. She takes EVERY picture of mine down!! I dont exsist there anymore!! and to make it even better she did something real petty and switched my friend icon so i was at the bottom of her list!!
I come to work and find out my " WONDEFULL W" has changed her profil on myspace. She takes EVERY picture of mine down!! I dont exsist there anymore!! and to make it even better she did something real petty and switched my friend icon so i was at the bottom of her list!!
I come to work and find out my " WONDEFULL W" has changed her profil on myspace. She takes EVERY picture of mine down!! I dont exsist there anymore!! and to make it even better she did something real petty and switched my friend icon so i was at the bottom of her list!!
I come to work and find out my " WONDEFULL W" has changed her profil on myspace. She takes EVERY picture of mine down!! I dont exsist there anymore!! and to make it even better she did something real petty and switched my friend icon so i was at the bottom of her list!!
She's being petty. I don't think it was spiteful, just petty. Remember she's in fantasy land, but it won't be long until reality bites her and she sees that fantasy land never existed.
Get out of myspace. There's a bunch of us in the OTHER alternate universe.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
