I haven't posted in a long time---too busy, too tired, and too depressed, but I have been following others' situations and praying for peace and healing for all of us.
My H is still the same, still being a jerk, still with the 22 yr. old OW (now they are going to look at houses together, before the D is even final, before we've had any convos about where the kids and I will live---lovely.)
The D trial date is set for Sept. 4, though there's a chance it may be postponed again. I hope so.
The kids have really been struggling lately, as he has NOT been the poster boy for fatherhood. Big surprise.
S9 wrote him a "letter" that I've been holding on to for a couple of months, and I wrote an accompanying letter and have been praying and waiting to see if there would be a right time to give it to him. It's been on my heart a lot the last few days weeks, especially since the kids got back from a very difficult 5 day vacation with H (no OW---he's been lying to the lawyers and the courts all along about her involvement), and think this may be the time.
But I would love some input and feedback about the content and whether it's wise to give it to him.
My letter to H to follow in next post. Thanks for any thoughts you may have.
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(
