patti knows me well enough off the board to know i was kidding with regard to viagara.
Patti may very well know this but if you look at the number of views on this thread alone you know full well she isn't the only one reading. We have a VAST number of hurting and confused people who will never put a word out on this board who devour this board on a daily basis.
It behooves us all to mind our words and suggestions lest they be taken seriously by someone who is in such a spin and in such shock that they truly can't wrap their mind around the sheer insanity of a suggestion of viagra {or any other drug} in the orange juice.
~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
steelers, since your humor/joke about viagra is such a spur to this emotional topic it might be beneficial to hit notify mod and ask them to edit your post to include a joking smiley face.
I took it as humorous like you intended, and still do. Prejudice of the reader. Sorry you've taken such a hit for it.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
Yeah, well I think right now it is just easy for some to paint those who profess belief in God as prudish or that we do wear flannel night gowns in the bedroom. How about the Book of Solomon, is that too strong for some.
It is so unfortunate that a few have taken it to this extent.
I can remember when we used to talk about pole dancing on other threads.
Let the enemy have their fun as it will not last.
I will just let it go.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
i had a victoria's secret bag and some sexy underwear just purchased laying around.”
To paint those who disagree with you as the enemy is ridiculous. You posted on Treese’s thread that you yourself had done those sort of things ie Victoria Secrets bag. That is not the point either. If you set yourself up as a guru faithfully doing nothing to alter the status quo of your marriage because it's all in Gods hands then why the need to make suggestions or confess to VS bags.
Like SW said people read and may not realise the joke. I have lost count of the times you have stated the OW your husband has been living with for many years and was having an affair with for years before that means nothing because its just somewhere free to stay- makes me wonder why you feel the need to buy and leave laying around VS underwear. OR is the truth that you feel threatened in that department. Heaven forbid that he is actually having sex with the woman he lives with. I would not have posted any of this but your dismissal of the posts as the enemy having fun warranted a reply.
While we are pointing finger and judging...we might do well to remember the the enemy is not each other...it is satan. I can't ever remember SF giving the impression that she the resident expert on standing...marriage or anything else. Why are we so quick to judge each other?
I, also, wonder if arguing about religious beliefs on Patti's thread is doing ANYTHING to make her feel better about her situation. Patti has made the decision to allow her husband to stay in their home, maybe we should just pray that her H will get over whatever his problem is and become a true husband to her.
Moving on...Patti how are the horse shows going? Do you train other horses or just train and show your own?
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Patti has made the decision to allow her husband to stay in their home, maybe we should just pray that her H will get over whatever his problem is and become a true husband to her.
agreed and Patti I apologise for taking up space on your thread.I hope your week gets better. Good luck with the horse shows.
THE SHOW WENT WELL WE WON SECOND LEVEL# 2 AND THIRD LEVEL TEST #1
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Congratulations on your success,you must be so pleased. I am not a horsey person but know people who are so know all the hard work and effort involved, not to mention the cost.
