“no, i have done stuff like that.

i had a victoria's secret bag and some sexy underwear just purchased laying around.”


To paint those who disagree with you as the enemy is ridiculous.
You posted on Treese’s thread that you yourself had done those sort of things ie Victoria Secrets bag.
That is not the point either. If you set yourself up as a guru faithfully doing nothing to alter the status quo of your marriage because it's all in Gods hands then why the need to make suggestions or confess to VS bags.

Like SW said people read and may not realise the joke.
I have lost count of the times you have stated the OW your husband has been living with for many years and was having an affair with for years before that means nothing because its just somewhere free to stay- makes me wonder why you feel the need to buy and leave laying around VS underwear. OR is the truth that you feel threatened in that department. Heaven forbid that he is actually having sex with the woman he lives with.
I would not have posted any of this but your dismissal of the posts as the enemy having fun warranted a reply.