Tim, just popping in to say hi. I wouldn't say anything about the comment. She may think you're overanalyzing her every word.
hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.