Your thread caught my attention. I just wanted to stop by and offer some support. I have read several of your posts, not all, but I felt like I was looking in the mirror. It is all to similar to the feelings I experienced when I walked away. I do think that, if you haven't already, you should seek out some advice outside of MC such as retrovaille, some of Michele's other books and tapes, or even meeting with her that will offer some real changes and will help you see your marriage as salvagable.
I felt hopeless and wanted my husband to admit that we were just to broken to fix. It wasn't until he finally did give up that I realized that our marriage was worth saving and I was devastated. I wish I had found this site when he still wanted to work it out. It changed my whole outlook on him and our marriage. Best of luck.
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