I like all the goals, except number 5; what you might consider 'low pressure', H might see as a high pressure interaction. Don't even go there! Instead focus on the other goals. If he misses you and you make progress there, then move on to a next set of goals, of which Boulder could be one. JMHO.
Well done on not looking at the boards during work time. I'm down to a quick look once a day, but it's taken me a year to get here- I was a total addict at first; it's a board addiction rollercoaster!!
