I was just thinking. The other day Puppy mentioned about how GBG was rejecting the marriage, not me personally.
Her taking an OM. Isn't that a rejection of me?
Just wondering?
Sometimes. When there are LEGITIMATE grievances. Abuse. Neglect. Alcoholism. Generally when you've been a poor spouse.
But most of the stories on here are of good husbands and wives, whose spouses just really don't want to be MARRIED anymore, for a variety of reasons. And so they FLEE.
It usually has very little to do with you personally. Just look at the serial adulterers -- are those ALL their spouse's fault???
