You know, GFI, you were asking about trusting someone again, and I was talking to someone today who had remarried (both were cheated on by their first spouses) and her H tells her where he is all the time and provides #s and is very transparent so she says she totally does trust her H now.
It sounds like your H is kind of more the secretive type (the whole locked box as an example) and my H is as well. So maybe look for less secretive, more transparent type people in future Rs? I know I've always told my H every detail and been transparent--b/c I've never had anything to hide and that's not the case for our H's I think. Karen
