I think I will plan something as a fallback. Only problem is that I'm flying into Dublin that weekend regardless. I think he's only excited so I can stay and watch the pets while he goes on a business trip. Well at least I'll get to see the pets! I sent him my ticket today--just so he can see that I am serious about this (in counseling he said he keeps thinking I am going to try and change his mind). He actually said--don't buy your ticket back yet as I might have a business trip around that time. Ugh--I reminded him that we had this trip booked, and while it was entirely up to him, he should bear those dates in mind when planning his business trip.
What if I went on the trip by myself if he didn't go? It would be sad, maybe heartbreaking, but would be a show of confidence!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
