Ruin what? You've been dark for 8 weeks now? And, it's not working. You would ruin it if you told him you've been crying for 8 months, and missing him, and pining over him, and that you have an alter with his pictures where you burn candles and pray that he'll come home (you don't, do you?). Anyways, that's the crazy stuff that make them run. A simple, innocent email is not going to ruin anything.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
