I can't see him going to Retrouvaille, the fact that he admitted he needs antidepressants was a huge step for him. We do talk a lot and not just about the A or her. It has only been a month since thier last contact so I know this is too soon and he is still coming to terms with what he did, why it happened (we both are) and getting over her. Trying to keep my mouth shut more and listen (I am a teacher so not easy - we teachers do like to talk) and let him work through this. He said last night that he is thankful that I am the kind of woman that will stand by him. I am trying, hard sometimes, but I am trying.


Me 40 H 41
T17/M14
Sons 7 and 4
OW - yes for over a year
"I don't know what I want" 5/29/08