Well, sawks, 5 days post in-person delivery of my letter and still NOTHING. H can still act like everything is O.K. Pretends for the kids that the only thing different is our addresses. I don't know what I expect, but I told him I know about OW, and that I know that THIS isn't just about us, and nothing changes.....................he is so screwed up!
His mother thinks he hates her. He's an only child. Should I tell him about the conversation with his mother? I guess this will be my question of the week. Off to post it to my thread..........
Well Tuesday morning back from a long weekend.. W has contacted me twice this morning, and because i had C today, I was still home when she woke up, i wished her a good day.. she emailed me to ask what days i will be late this week (even though i told her it's next week I will be late, who's not listening now?) .. and subsequently she called me for something to do with her laptop..
Anyways it's been a week and i really am not sure if she will ever reply.. but no expectations means exactly that..
W also acts as if nothing is wrong.. as i get closer and closer to deciding if I have finally had it or not.. being in same house paying off debt is a good thing, but she is getting to do the same .. so she is buying time to set herself up for the future as well.. until everything would get split, then she would realize more..
I personally wouldn't tell him.. i am a rookie so some veteran would better answer that.. it's your convo, not his.. not really his business right now
