apparanetly, I'm also doing a crappy job as Dad

[Kenny]

Getting better with the kids is really good. They will always be your kids and will see the good times now fondly when they are older.

I find its easier to get on with my sons when there is no mummy buffer in between us to disapprove or modify what I think is right for me and the boys. I dont always get it right but I feel closer to my sons now than ever before.
Doing the simple things is sooo good sometimes. My youngest loves to draw and just now when we lie on the floor just doodling and chatting it really brings home to me whats important. My kids. I was too busy earning a living to support my sons and w to enjoy being with them. I have changed that now.

It might not make a difference to my m or how my w sees me but it makes mee feel good.