Perhaps so but as we all know, everyone sees things differently.
Our focus should be on what can benefit Patti. Sending her down the same road seems like a set up for more of the same. That is my concern for her.
~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
