A hurting Tostada

[Kenny]

Tostada,

I have been reading along today and almost feel I am reading my own story. The big problem I had and you seem to be having too is reconciling your frustration and hurt with the love you still feel for your w. I tried to back off big time and it still wasnt enough so w moved out 1st August.

They just dont think in reasonable terms just now. You cant change that so you just have to change all you can for you and the kids to make your life with them as best it can be.

You are your No1 priority followed closely by your kids.

Trying to GAL or be positive is really hard for me too. But it is the best thing you can do. When w sees that you are making positive changes (and she will no matter how small) It will make her think.

This is going to be as tough as it gets in your life. Dont ever give up on your m if that is what you want. I am trying hard to do the same as you and feel the same pain.

Drop me a line when you want. I will try to help as much as I can.