Mediations isn't supposed to be a counseling session. Do you have a lawyer reviewing what's proposed. I figure you keep your eye on the prize. If it doesn't work with mediation, there's always the next step up, then the next step up.
Yep, the L's are sitting right there while it's going on. I'm not foolish. Mediation ain't a bed of roses either, especially when kids are involved. Especially when assets are being protected. You can look on this site and if people here are really being honest then you see how nasty, messy, sucky it really is. Kids or no kids. Nobody I personally know has ever told me that mediation is easier on the kids, easier on the people involved. They all say it sucks.
