I'm afraid if I was in driving distance I would track him down and I would... well, let's just say you wouldn't have to worry about your h treating you like crap. Ever again.
Thanks so much GFI! I'm afraid if you were within driving distance, I'd let you!!! H4H, you're right; it's time for it to be over. I feel like that more every day. Tired of having to stand up for myself against the big,bad bully every time--life shouldn't be like that. NC, I thought that too, my H has changed so much in the past 2 years, but I'm not holding my breath that he will change anytime soon-and even if he did which is unlikely, so much stuff he has done the past year would be hard to forget, trust him, etc.
I finally got my hair cut today--it had been about 6 months!!! I took the time & money today and did it, and it looks so much better! I have long hair but still...My hairstylist is so sweet, she had cut D8's hair a few weeks ago and D8 liked her also. She was telling me her 1st husband was a cheater and a yeller too. She found out after the D in something like 11 years of marriage, he'd only been faithful for 2 years! Now she's happily remarried and she says she totally trusts him--he had the same experience with his 1st wife being a cheater so he calls her she says even if he's just going across the street to tell her and give her the number. She met him in an internet chat room btw and she moved to our town from across the country. Kind of a modern-day fairy tale I thought! But anyway, talking to her was better than the therapist and my hair looks great too! Karen
H4H, you're right; it's time for it to be over. I feel like that more every day. Tired of having to stand up for myself against the big,bad bully every time--life shouldn't be like that. NC, I thought that too, my H has changed so much in the past 2 years, but I'm not holding my breath that he will change anytime soon-and even if he did which is unlikely, so much stuff he has done the past year would be hard to forget, trust him, etc. 
