I think this is actually good cycling. You are who she is turning to to talk to and that is also a positive. Could you reassure her that you have no expectations somehow and be close to her? By that I mean be intimate without ml and just being close? Even without kissing her, you can use body language and gentle signs that you want to comfort her. One of the things I've tried to do in the last week is to spend as much time as possible with my h and just not talking. Just being. Kind of something new for me.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.