I have the kids all week. My W yesterday emailed me asking if my D9 wanted to go to camp all week. I thought this was a bit insensitive, since it's my only 'all week' period with the kids. And to do it on Monday sort of set me off. Nice planning.
So, I answered her email with a simple 'nope'. I'm just so frustrated with her. She replied with 'this is a prime example of you being short and snippety'. I didnt know we were looking for these examples and I have never heard that excuse or reasoning about me in the past. Anyway, it seems I cannot win with her. I realize 'nope' isnt the greatest answer, but I'm not sure it matters.
I am going to take the kids out of town for the weekend. In the past few weeks she has made it clear that if I leave with the kids, she wants to know what were doing ('just in case your in a car crash'). She certainly hasnt let me know what she's always doing with the kids. She doesnt want to be part of our family, then I dont think I need to check in with her if we do something.
I'm trying to be very busy with my kids this week. Just live for me and my kids right now. I'm so frustrated that I'm in this situation and that its lasted this long. It has completely worn me out and I'm nearing the end of the rope for me. I just cannot be 'rejected' for such a long time and not have it take its toll.
