Free sample from a doctor or someone who uses them???? I think this might be a great experiment. She could wear her Victoria's Secret apparel as she serves him breakfast and then...........
He might surprise himself as well.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Whilst I can see the humour in this--I often see advice being given for women to use their bodies as a way of getting their h to come back. I find it disturbing. Does it actually solve anything and does it actually help with self esteem problems. I know God helps those who help themselves but I find advice like this very much at odds with the professed belief that God alone will bring the wayward spouse home. Does God actually want you to use such wanton jezabel tatics? I don't think you can have it both ways.
I REALLY BELIEVE HE HAS NO INTREST WHAT SO EVER.....HE SAYS HES AFRAID.....I DONT BUY THAT. HE HAD NO PROBLEM LAST FALL SEEING HER ON THE SIDE, IT STILL RESONATES WHAT I READ LAST FALL....
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Whilst I can see the humour in this--I often see advice being given for women to use their bodies as a way of getting their h to come back. I find it disturbing. Does it actually solve anything and does it actually help with self esteem problems. I know God helps those who help themselves but I find advice like this very much at odds with the professed belief that God alone will bring the wayward spouse home. Does God actually want you to use such wanton jezabel tatics? I don't think you can have it both ways.
naej:
you are taking this the wrong way. sometimes you have to inject some humor because everything is always so serious and intense. people need to laugh once in awhile.
it is not pleasant what patti is going thru.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Sometimes we need to lighten up because there is too much tension.
Honestly, I don't know of anyone who would use "wanton jezebel tactics" as you have described it.
I am sorry if you took offense at this.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Beyond the wanton Jezebel tactics it is bad form to suggest, even as a joke, that someone obtain and administer a drug to another person in order to get a desired result. It's against the law to say nothing of the incredible health risks involved. Please be careful about the jokes. You just never know who might not see it as a joke and take the advice as gold and set the stage for a tragic ending.
~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
