He is losing it fast! Well, let me rephrase that, he is losing it even more now.
Don't worry about him being able to get custody. There is no way that a judge would look at his record and let him have custody with his drinking problem. I certainly would talk to an attorney ASAP. You may even want to consider supervised visitation with him being so unstable right now.
He has created this mess, and he wants to blame you, "poor pitiful him". He does not want to take any responsibility for his actions. He is a sinking ship, you are doing the right thing by getting off that ship. He needs help and unfortunately, he has to realize that himself. Maybe all of this will open his eyes.
I know your pain is so real, and I'm so sorry. Wish there was more I could do for you. My heart aches for you.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
