I am trying sooooo hard to let go of control. My big one right now is that we have a birthday trip planned for H on the weekend of September 4th, tickets paid for and everything. His usual line at the moment applies here, "let's just see-ok?" So, I sent him the info for the hotel, told him he needed to cancel 72 hours in advance if he decided he didn't want to go. I also bought a ticket home from Poland for that weekend, but said we could do something else if he decided against the trip. My goal now is not to bring up this trip again until 3 days before--after all at some point I do need to plan for myself too! This is a huge, massive step for me as I really live for my trips. If we do actually go, my next goal will be to not suggest anything the entire time!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
