I understand your fears. About 3 years ago, H got angry and threatened to leave and take D4. He was drunk. I called an attorney. He told me that my H could take D4 anywhere in the state he wanted, but could not take her over state lines. A while back, H said something about moving back to IN and taking D4 with him. I told him he couldn't do that legally. I don't think he's checked into anything. My fear would be that OW would put a bug in his ear about what he could/could not do. From what she knows, I'm a cold, heartless person that doesn't give a sh*t about my H.
Last night was hard for me because at one point.....before the anger between us, I broke down. H asked me what was wrong. I just said...I'm tired. He said, mentally or physically? I said, a little of both. Well, as hard as it is for me to admit this, that's something that H would turn around and use against me.
Okay, me being nosey....what part of CA? Just curious. I lived in Orange County for a short time.
SueS
Last edited by SueS; 08/05/0803:54 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day