Sara, you sound good. I am glad you know better than to even consider taking him back until he has dealt with his problems. We can't know what would have happened if we had made other decisions, but I think you would still be going through the same cycle with him if you hadn't filed.

Your H needs help. With his previous cheating I do think if it wasn't this OW, it would have been another.

I think my friendship with H was what broke him and OW#1 up. I guess I never thought about her being jealous that he was talking to me, but apparently she was. I get some kind of sick comfort out of that.

Drama free life is great isn't it??? So, where did you meet this cutie that you are hanging out with?


Kris