Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
ahh, sis..ya can't lump us all together..look at me..2x's..I'm a two timer..I have faith that there's a good "one" out there..surely there is.

You are right. Thank you for the reminder.

Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
Bitter, I'm an expert on bitter. I was bitter from my 1st for years...

Work on dropping the bitter if you can. Bitter=bad Girl..you're a lot better than bitter.

I should clarify that I was feeling momentarily bitter. Working out does wonders. Legs and chest today and I'm shaking from exerting myself instead of feeling the rage! I'm not one to hold a grudge, my husband is very lucky to have me for an ex-wife.

My attitude is soooo much better now.

Have a fabulous day and remind yourself of your fabulosity. =)

Oh, and California is 50/50, but if the stupid box is full of "personal stuff" then I don't care. What I care about is being respected. Flaunting a box locked with a padlock in my own home is not respectful. I do not need him, I do not need to know what kind of crap is too private for my eyes.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence