I have no thread, when I did it was in Surviving. M3 T4 no kids. I'm 46 XH 45, 2 years post D, he's remarried to OW who is 20 years younger than him. During M he had numerous EA/PA, refused MC, I gave up. So I'm a WAW. I suggested we separate and at that point he beelined for a D. He was just waiting until it was my idea, how sweet. My fault in the is I did not give him the attention he needed. When we met, I had a job that involved travel which he thought he could tolerate. He couldn't, didn't like being left alone that much. By the time I got a clue and quit he was already hooked up.
Anyways, not much to it. He moved to another state immediately so it's all good. Have fun in DC this weekend!
